ASM
Class of 1972: In Celebration
Recently, I sat down with my photo
albums and my collection of ASM yearbooks, and put this
together, knowing that we would all be here today. It's a
tribute to all of you, and to those days when we were
immortal, and young, and fearless. The pictures made me
smile, and laugh, and sometimes cry; They made me remember
each of you in turn, but more importantly, they made me
remember who we were, the class of 1972.
I learned a lot at ASM; we all did. We
learned about love, and caring, and loss. In ninth grade,
shortly after my arrival, I watched in horror as the class
received the news that Ben Guarneau, a former classmate
and friend, had collapsed on the track at Torrejón and
died. I was standing near Vivian Gomez at that fateful
moment; the look in her eyes, and the sadness and pain in
her scream as she fell to the floor will be a poignant and
terrible part of me forever. ASM was a place where
emotions were as real as homework, and we grew stronger
for them.
We all remember the chaotic times on
the schoolbuses, buses so different from the yellow
rattletraps that kids ride in here. Thy would pull up in
the big field to the west of the school, a field that
today cradles a new gym and theater, and disgorge their
payloads of mayhem on the waiting faculty. With swords
drawn, Oeste and Santoro and Fernandez and Jenny Lind
would ride herd, ushering the crowd through the
administration building and on to lockerland. There, we
would retreat into our respective caverns to put away
lunches and look for clandestine notes slipped into the
air vents of the locker doors.
Locker time was social time, and I have
many happy memories of those raucous minutes before class.
I well remember the day John Comiskey discovered an apple
in his locker, an apple that he had placed there many
months before and that was now a candidate for
archaeological status. You could smell it in Cleveland. It
was also the time to meet boyfriends and girlfriends, and
time to catch up on those crucial things that had happened
since yesterday.
We were students at a time when history
and change were in the making, and the world was a
frightening and unpredictable place. From our vantage
point on the hill high above Aravaca, we watched as
Berkeley writhed and burned and soldiers died in an
unknown Asian land. We listened as the music decried the
acts of our fathers, and lent half an ear as the new
spiritual leaders, the Learys and Rubins and Maos and
Hoffmans told us how to rebel, how to change things, how
to rip off the society at large.
But we didn't; we listened to the
music, listened to Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young tell us
that we had a very fine house and that we should treat our
parents well, and listened to Creedence down at the
corner. We wandered through downtown Madrid and wondered
what it really would be like in the year 2525, and
played futbolín to the stomping rhythm of Rare Earth and
the Archies, as we tried in vain to beat Comiskey and
Collins at that game, their game.
We got drunk at Las Cuevas and puked in
the gutters, lived for the liter bar at Moncloa, and hung
out at the Parque de Atracciones, where we spun around in
those infernal cages, rode the pulpo and teleférico and
shot bee-bee guns at targets, and drank cañas and ate
boquerones and patatas bravas. We partied at the Bikkal
farm, and lived our young lives as if there were no
tomorrow.
We even created heroes. We listened
adoringly as Frank Mann and Humberto Cáncio warbled their
way aboard a jet plane hundreds of times over. We had our
statesman, Mr. Diaz-Balart, who captivated us with
mesmerizing and fiery oratory, and Messrs. Sellmer and
Driscoll and Balandrín, whose knowledge of things
mathematical bordered on the mystical -- at least, it kept
them safe from Villalvazo. We had Quirós and Warfield,
whose whimsical and goofy approach to life kept us all
smiling.
And what of the teachers who guided us
through our years at ASM? We all had our favorites, but
some stood out above the others. There was Joanne Haer,
whose handling of the ill-fated sweater boycott in 1969
started the trend away from those hated ties and jackets.
There was Ernie Belanger, who kept us all hopping, and
Emily Villalvazo, who kept us all sweating. There were the
language teachers, Santoro and Casariego and Asúnsolo,
and those poor science teachers, Diane Wrigley and George
Oeste and Anne Hare, all of whom put up with far too much.
Pith a frog, indeed.
And who could forget Artistic Pépe,
whose home, now the school's infirmary, sat perched at the
top of the schoolyard? Or endless games of four-square,
senior fashion shows, or Van Wormer's drowning team? Hell,
once remembered, how can we forget any of it.
Entertainment was our game, and Spain was our playing
field. In Segovia, Keith Lessig, Dave Graves, Joe
Rodriguez and I crawled half a mile on our bellies across
the aqueduct that divides the city, only to discover that
the easy drop to the ground was two stories -- on to hay,
thank goodness.
Later that same year, Nick, Joe and I
traveled to the little town of Bujarrabal where we stayed
with an ageless couple, the Ambronas, and learned what
life in the pueblo was like. And food! How we filled our
teen bellies in that country. We haunted Knight and
Squire, Helen's American Pies, and later, Hollywood's. We
ate calamares and pulpo and merluza, chorizo and
salchichón and morcilla, Paella and Fabada and
Ensaladilla Rusa. We drank cañas and cuba libres and
granizos, horchata and café sólo and La Casera.
As I think about those years in Aravaca,
I find it hard to really put together a single image of
how things were. Rather, the memories come in disjointed
clusters, like a building rainstorm. First a few drops,
then a few more, and before long they're a rushing
torrent, arriving faster than I can write them down. The
memories are good ones, though, and they fade one into the
next, like a running water color. My first camping trip
with John Comiskey and David Collins, a journey to
Navacerrada where we lived on fabada and chocolate bars.
Michael Sellmer arriving at school, the day after he fell
asleep under the sunlamp. The trips to San Fermín. A
field trip to the Cuenca Modern Art Museum. Soccer games
in small dirt fields. The Fusion Festivals, where we
marvelled at Ray Manley and Lincoln and José Batlle as
they taught Santana a thing or two.
And dare I bring up the love lives of
our class, mention those relationships that even today
cause us to occasionally pause and smile? They were the
weave in the fabric, the tightness to the cloth that made
us what we were and made us indestructible. Bob and Susan.
David and Robin. Tony and Sue. John and Ana. Steve and
Carolyn. Vivian and Mark. Axel and Demmy. Eric and Belén.
Mike and Linda. Patty and Don.
We look back over the long, difficult
road to where we are today, and the warmth is still there,
even though it shimmers in the distant haze of memory.
When we graduated, thousands of miles from here and 20
years ago, we knew where we were going. We were coming
here, 20 years hence, to be together again. We're
different people now, older and wiser; men, we're all
heavier, but ladies, you look wonderful.
Those high school days were a long time
ago, but even now, they come back to rattle in my head.
When I hear Get Ready, my hands start reaching for
the futbolín handles. When I hear Crosby, Stills and
Nash, I think of Judy Thompson and John Comiskey and Kari
Kolstad and all the other folks who made those hot August
nights so special. Yes, I even get a little nostalgic when
I hear John Denver singing Leaving on a Jet Plane.
Just a little, though.
A few months ago, my parents traveled
to Spain to visit Mary-Adah Curbera and her husband, and
brought back pictures of the school today. Once again, the
world has changed, and with it, ASM. Political realities
have resulted in the building of a high wall around the
school, complete with armed guard post and electric gate.
Where the buses once parked there now stands a red brick
gymnasium and theater, as well as volleyball courts, more
basketball courts and baseball fields. The spindly tree
that Kari Kolstad planted for us is now taller than the
school and shades the entire front of the administration
building. No doubt about it; we left our mark there.
I salute all of you, and extend to you
my love, my admiration and my friendship. 20 years ago, we
marched in front of the administration building to Pomp
and Circumstance, planted a tree, and said tearful
goodbyes. Tonight, we say hello again.
To all of you here, and to those who
couldn't be with us, I toast the American School of Madrid
Class of 1972, as well as the friends and family that are
here with us. Salud, Amor y Pesetas, y el tiempo para
gastarlas.